As long as the parallel impedance of the digital recorder and preamp are on the order of 20x or more than the output impedance of the photo preamp, you should be fine driving both in parallel without additional buffering.
For example, if your digital recorder has an input impedance of 40K ohms and your preamp has as an input impedance of 100K ohms, the parallel impedance will be 1/(1/40K+1/100K) = 28.6K. If the output impedance of your phono preamp is less than ~1500 ohms, you should be fine with modest length cables (less than 2M). These numbers are just an example.
I've been pretty impressed with the DH Labs Pro Studio cable. I've made a bunch of longish (7-8M) DIY balanced interconnects to use between my preamp and monoblock amps, and this was my favorite. Some of the others I tried were Blue Jeans Belden, Connex "The Natural", Neotech NEI-3001 Mk III. The only cable that I tried that bettered the Pro Studio was the Iconoclast 4x4 UP-OCC which is much more expensive (and is incredibly stiff).