Noam S.
Thanks for being patient for my response.
My response will be divided into 2 parts. I will first comment on what the audible changes should be with my piece of the mods in part 2. I will then comment on what I would accomplish to fix your problems.
My hunch is that you do indeed have something wrong. Unfortunately, I cannot physically hear your amplifier. The underlying message I hear you conveying is that your amplifier sounds worse following the mods in part 2. This should not be the case. After the bypass capacitors and diodes, the bass will clean-up slightly (i.e. less round), and the midrange will also become very slightly cleaner. However, the difference is NOT dramatic. If the impact sounded significantly wrong/bad, it probably is wrong/bad.
I did not fuss with the balance control, and have never accomplished this. I am not certain of the complexities, or what happens if things go awry.
I have experienced what happens if diodes are backwards. Normally smoke will result

. Either the diode or something after the diode will clearly indicate a clear problem. However, if you have a bad/weak solder joint, the result could be a thin sound. But, this is only a guess.
My first step would be to check the orientation of the diodes and the viability of the solder joints. My next step would be to undo the balance control. After this, work backwards and INDIVIDUALLY undo your work in part 2.
I became quite zealous with my CD player and swapped @ 40 parts in 1 sitting. I had 2 bad solder joints, but couldn't find them. I managed to isolate the location via schematic, but couldn't find the problem. After 4-5 hours of looking analyzing the problem I decided to send the CD player to a pro. He found the problems, but it cost me $250. My wife wasn't happy

, and I promised to never fuss with my CD player again. However, all of those Black Gate caps sound ooooh so smooth!
Oh, I should also offer herein a comment about coupling capacitors that would seem germane to 302 mods. I now have Mundorf Silver/Oil and Mundorf Gold capacitors in a few locations of my source gear. These are good capacitors and sound slightly better than the Sonicap, but not significantly better. IMO, the Mundorf capacitors are NOT a wise value-oriented purchase. IMO, the Sonicap offers 90% of the performance at 20% of the cost. In retrospect, I... probably should not have spent $300 on the Mundorf coupling capacitors in my source gear.
I am using a Sonicap Platinum .1uf bypass around all the larger coupling capacitors in my source gear. This is a slightly better value but not "huge". As such, my recommendation for this is positive, but not overwhelmingly so. But, these aren't terribly expensive. As such, installing .1uf Sonicap Platinums around the coupling caps in the Jolida 302 is a reasonable option. Perhaps someone could comment herein after deciding to accomplish this.
Dave