With all this lifestyle chat, I'm recalling those sleek B&O receivers from the 70's (not the later ones with the gaudy wall hung option). Good sounding (in the typical dry Scandinavian way) and well built, compact (fully intended to belong on a book shelf), and (I thought) were almost too simple use (no power on button, just go to your source selection and hit the off button when done). Today NuForce is an audio company that spans portable, desktop, wireless, and high-end spectrums with simple/compact equipment.
Frankly the DIY crowd scares most the 'straights' away in an instant with gobs of wires, exposed components, and unfathomable controls (which should all be a good lessons in what not to do if you're trying to breach the 'civilian' market). Just add warm-up time, delicate turntables, tubes that burn cats and small children with huge ugly speakers and you have a run of the mill audio system and all the reasons why the general public flee in mass hysteria.
Speakers are a particular challenge in addressing various acceptance factors with number, size, and location constraints. One of the best examples of crossing high-end with lifestyle in a passive speaker is Amphion. But this is where active designs (that can be much smaller for the same bass response, many that include wall/corner/open location adjustments or desktop versions that are so small its not needed) can really shine, with separate subwoofers as needed, and wireless controls can help win the day. The question is: Can the typical audiophile support tearing down the walls that separate our territory and embrace gear that is accessible to the masses?