Good stuff here, guys.
Much trial and error has gotten me here as of this morning.
Gain set to 60db and Loading at 68 Ohm.
I got the gain dialed yesterday, 55 was a hair too low, 60 is a hair to high. I probably actually need 57/58.
I Cranked up the loading for quite a while to see what was going on, at one put I accidently put in the 75K ohm, thinking they were 75 ohms. That was not overly pleasant

. I have been getting lower at every iteration, I will try 50 ohm in a few hours.
I am getting some weird bass response at this point, but only on some really low end recordings(Om - Conference of The Birds). On the other hand Everybody Knows This Is Nowhere is sounding nice right now.
And Neobop, thanks for the volume at 11 o'clock reminder. In addition I think you are right about the 0.28mV, I have read too much conflicting stuff about 0.2mV etc. The .28mV makes sense with the gain I have going now.
Minn Mark: You sound hella excited about the VanAlstine stuff, I will ring the guy.
Thanks for all the help!