It is a long drive from NJ (I believe). He still has not answered my post in hours so maybe he isn't sure of my question
In the pic he is looking at the direction of Doug or Scott (and coincidentally Scott is going to be away at the same time
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Thanks for the kind thoughts Phil. Although Doug and Scott are indeed handsome men in their own right, I'm not willing to foot the bill for the gender switching surgery that would be necessary to get my full attention.
I am sorry I didn't make the meet, I was looking forward to it and it looks like you guys had a great time. I'm recently (and suddenly) single so have taken a swing at the dating sites. I had lovely dates with three different women Friday, Saturday, and Sunday night, so although it's a bummer I didn't make it down to Jon's place, I'm taking a wild guess I may have had a slightly better time here at home. Hope to see you guys at CAF and maybe the next meet at Phil's.