Hey Profbratsch,
I really like listening to 2 channel (at low volumes), but there are times when I think I should do your suggestion and get some good HEADPHONES as well as the ISABELLINA HPA.... like when my girlfriend is sleeping, or she's RANTING about something and I want to IGNORE her 
The thing that worries me, is that if I spend this extra THOUSAND BUCKS on the HPA and then another chunk of change on some LCD2's, i might end up feeling GUILTY when I am NOT using them (because all that expense is just sitting there). Do you find yourself using the headphones vs speakers equally?
Thanks in advance for your response.
After many years of letting audio sit on the sideline, it was the purchase of my first iPod 7 years ago that drew me back into the addiction. My quest began on Headfi, for IEMs (Ety 4Ps) and then grew into headphones (Senn 650s). Next big step was to AKG K1000s just about the time AKG discontinued this fantastic product. The next couple steps get interesting...
So now I'm sitting on a fairly pricy, yet uninspiring 2ch system (Ayre V3, Vandersteen 2W sub, Wadia 830 CDP and Acoustic Energy AE-1 monitors), and begin a quest for an amp to drive the K1000s earspeakers...
After ordering a First Watt F1, a headfier sends a PM about a new amp from RWA called the Sig 30, that just won some award from 6moons. After a call to Vinnie, I agree to let him ship a Sig 30 so I can run it side by side with the F1.
Bottom line is the headphones (Sig 30 / K1000s) are addicting (addictive???), and I'm back in love with listening to music -- even more so than my 2ch rig. Next big step I make the connection that many RWA customers also have single driver speakers from Omega, and that is when things get really interesting...
So now I'm listening near-field to Omega single drivers on RWA, and the end of the game is now in sight and I've never looked back.
Bottom line is I have the HPA and a nice set of headphones (now AKG 701s). I've also spent many hours with friends owning very pricy headphone rigs including mega-buck Stax electrostats and LCD-2s.
While I will never deny that headphones are great for private listening or not disturbing the neighbors, I'm now 100% convinced that no headphone rig, regardless of brand or price can ever be as real or fulfilling as 2 ch done right. Dynamics, soundstage, detail, bass, you name it... no headphone rig can do what great 2 ch is capable of doing. Fine print...
Like I said, headphones have their place, and a product like HPA makes both headfi and 2ch possible (I even run my Blueray though the HPA Isabellina DAC for movies). But in the right room, with the right gear, and with the proper set up, 2 channel has the potential to bring listening to a whole 'nother level. I will say this another way...
For months, maybe years I read headfi posts and got all jazzed about what they had to say about headphones. But making the move to RWA, single drivers and now a nice room with acoustic treatments has led me to the conclusion that good or great is relative to what you've experienced. Compared to the 2ch rigs (or surround sound) rigs many of these guys had / have heard, a good headfi rig may seem like heaven. But some of us know that utopia is still a few notches higher.
Not trying to brag or be a snob. But I must admit that my eyes have been opened and now I'm spoiled. But IMO that's a good thing.
Lesson for you or others (IMO): Headphones are great, and even take away issues like room acoustics. You might even be able to argue that for the money, a good set of headphones is hard to beat. BUT, if you have the money and the room, IMO you should know that headphones can get you as close to good 2ch as good 2ch can get you to a live performance (if that makes sense?). It's all relative.
The other lesson is that within money constraints, IMO investments in products like Sig 15s and HPAs are wonderful building blocks no matter when your budget or tastes may bring you in terms of speakers / headphones. I have multiple decades on you, so I've had a chance to try a few things and blow a few bucks along the way. But the one area I've invested money that I've always felt was an exceptional value has been RWA for seven years now (and honestly, Omega too for making a great speaker at a great value for the way I listen). Your milage may vary. Current rig...
Sig 15
HPA
Macbook via USB
Omega Super 6 monitors (nearfield)
Omega Deep Hemp sub
AKG 701s
A room well treated with GIK sound panels including tricorners, first reflection and 4 of their mega bass traps (don't recall the model name)
Kent