Scotty, I listen technically in the far field, as my listening position is ever so slightly farther (10 to 10.5 ft) away from the speakers as they are from each others center (9 ft). But the differences are close enough, and the speakers large enough, that the feeling you get sitting there is one of near field.
My somewhat flippant "5th row center" explanation is certainly fluid, as many live acoustic recordings (especially classical) force one to "sit" further in perspective. My 5th row is best explained as a wide enveloped perspective, with somewhat aggressive dynamics and a feeling of being near the mix. This is especially true of studio produced multi-miked recordings, anything from Radiohead to Patricia Barber.
I find many sources and amplification devices that don't allow this fluid nature to occur; i.e everything sounds from the same row! I dismiss those demos fairly quickly.