I just have a problem with the BDP, I guess. It seems like a lot of work, and quite frankly, expense, in a house that is fully networked. I just don't appreciate the product enough to get one, I guess. The sp3, on the other hand, seems like the best pre-pro out there by far. Two things I would change would be to add video scaling and asynchronous USB. The former is never going to happen (and is rather easy nowadays), and the latter seems so close that I wish Bryston would have taken care of it. However, given how long in development the sp3 was, I can understand that they couldn't add everything. Plus, it does have a decent USB input already. I mean, not many pre-pros even have a USB input.
Having said all that, there is a USB to AES/EBU converter for $450 through Auraliti. That might be a solid way to connect something like a mac mini to the sp3 and "have it all". At least until the sp3 gets upgraded.
There are other Bryston and non-Bryston solutions as well. But the sp3 seems like such a well designed piece from an audio perspective, one should be able to dispense with lots of other gear and just use one box. I am strongly leaning toward getting one and testing it out.