I've heard that some carpet pads can mar wood floors underneath, so be careful.
Acoustically, I don't know, although I'm getting new wall to wall installed today in my room and I picked the heaviest, rubber-slab-type pad, thinking that this would give the best damping of floor vibrations.
So maybe consider not only the effect on the sound from the speakers interacting w/ the pad, but also the vibrations that travel through the floor. So in that case, I'd think that a heavy pad would be most effective.
Sorry not much help, but interesting since I'm sort of going through similar thinking myself...
-Mike