That's correct Dave. I have the Behringer now and the Digilink is on its way. Since the unit can provide three sets of crossovers and three sets of outputs, when it gets here I intend to also route L & R outputs from it to my VLAs.
My understanding from Brian is that this unit cannot directly feed the VLA amps in two channels with a third crossover point. There are three potential crossovers available, but they are limited in frequency choices, where one is for the high range, one in the middle and one lower. The lower one available will be used for crossing over the V60s mids and highs to their own bass sections. Because of this the only way to run the VLAs from the Behringer on the extra outputs would be in mono mode with the sub option selected.
I will be running into the same issue and that is why the input impedance becomes an issue for me. My options are first to either run the VLA mono amps in parallel with the Behringer out of my preamp, or second to run those mono amps in parallel with the V60s bass amp(s) out of the Behringer. This second option would allow the Behringer EQ control over the VLAs.
However, the total impedance being driven by either my preamp, or the Behringer would be very low and and at least twice lower than the minimum recommended. That is what I am needing to do a work around with mods of some sort.
I don't think that the gain will be an issue since that is fully adjustable on each sub amp.