It seems with REW's "Impulse" measurement this could be done but the tutorial says basically whenever the system "hears" first sound, "Time 0" begins. I guess I could try running this to see whether two distinct peaks are present.
If so, I should be able to experiment with different phase settings until the peaks line up? Hmmm, that might not work since the sub might be a full cycle behind when everything's perfect which wouldn't look right on such a graph.
Considering REW's home theater roots, it seems there should be a specific function to do this.
There are lots of subwooferers 'round here, what do you guys do?