I've always thought that those audiophiles who listen for every single bit of information on the disc are missing the point.
I agree....but one question that comes to mind is is not simply what "experience" we are after when listening but the associated "perception" of how things should sound. Sauer made the point, and it is a good one, that sound engineering exerts a tremendous influence on the sonic outcome of a disc, LP, and how this does not necessarily line up with the reality of the live event. He used the example of an orchestral recording. Multi-source miking does not replicate the sound the concert goer heard in the actual hall. So, that begs the question of how good our sonic memories are for the actual live music.... 
Which is why it comes back to emotion for me.
I know that what I hear on the recorded medium is somebody's interpretation of what "they" heard. Given that, why shouldn't I build a system that allows me to consistently connect with the music I play regardless of accuracy, detail, etc...?
When I first started out in this hobby it was all about the music for me. Along the way, it started to become more and more about the gear and trying to constantly "improve"...to wring every little detail, nuance, etc... While this used to work for me, it no longer pushes my buttons like it once did. Now I just want to listen and enjoy the music again. If the system isn't SOA, I am ok with that.
Now before somebody says, "George, you go through more gear in a month than I have in the last 10 years"

- I still like to try different gear and I am also trying a different approach to system assembly. Since no one system can do everything, I have decided to build multiple systems that are relatively easy to swap in and out of my main 2 channel system. Depending on my mood or musical tastes, I might go with the single driver system or maybe an active open baffle system. While these two approaches don't sound anything alike (at least to my ears), I am finding that I can enjoy the music with either.
George