Kevin,
Very timely. I've been considering this same thing for a while and feeling like I want to do something a bit heretical with the next SE amp -- the RH84. However, my version of heretical goes in an entirely different direction than yours...
I plan to use a 2 or 3 position Molex terminal block that uses a number 6 screw and the mini spade/fork connectors for 18-22 gauge wires (or larger if you wish). I have a small box full of the 2 position Molex terminal strips -- they are very well made, are brass (not steel like the el cheapo, ancient phenolic strips that used to be seen in a lot of vintage gear), and are super simple to mount. Several places sell "boutique" #6 screw spades -- DH Labs, and Eichmann for a couple, but they tend to be for more like the 10-12 gauge wires.
Most of the cheapie spades from Mouser and the like are copper with tin plating, which works for me. bare copper, or copper with direct gold plating (no nickel intermediate plating) are also availanble (the Eichmann's for example.)
For cabling, going minimalist there too -- not quite to the extent of a single run of 30, 26, or 24 awg wire as some people do and like, but more like multiple (4, 6,

30 awg wires.
If magnet wire is your thing, there are companmies who will make you almost any kind you want, and with your choice of insulating materials -- from enamel to teflon, etc. I've got a stash of silk and cotton tubing, and between that, a little heat-actived glue heatshrink, and some minimalist connectors, I think I'm going to get some very nice results. Preliminary tests are very positive.
That said though, I know what you say about the EP music posts -- I have a pair left here -- they're decent as I've had them for a while, but as you say, they aren't being produced anymore. Eichmann Cable Pods and Cardas Patented, pure copper, as well as some of the all-copper offerings from Vampire and DH labs shouldn't be overlooked either. Some are reasonable -- some are really expensive, but at $35 a set, the all-copper Cardas Patented is most likely going to be the ones I use on my SimpleSE -- and in general I'm no big fan of things Cardas.
RCAs too -- some nice, minimalist copper., or direct gold over copper offerings from DH Labs and Vampire. RCA males? Well, I just bought a big bag of the Switchcraft ones seeing that they are about $21.40 each and seem to get a lot of respect from a lot of corners.
I would like to try some of the mogami star-quad, light gauge interconnect wire, especially for internal amp wiring, but using good copper or silver with a cotton or silk jacket, one can make extremely good star-quad TP, or triple braid ICs and internal signal wiring, and tht's probably be the route I take as I have a spool of 28 awg cotton insulated silver wire that's just sitting in the wire box begging to be used.
Good topic!
-- Jim