Could you please share the impedance curve datasheet on the Tang Band driver in question?
If anything, to my ears at least, the 3.0's are incredibly flat, if not subdued on the upper end. I have my 3.0 drums on a 2ch rig with a NAD 2240PE amp, NAD 1130 pre, AMC Cd8b cd, Signal Cable Analog 1 interconns, MIT Terminator 4 speaker cables, passed through a B&W Asw500 sub with a 6db/oct active low-pass, 6db/oct passive high-pass @ 80Hz.
The results in the sweet-spot are stellar, no high-end fatigue/brightness. Before purchasing, I spoke with Mr. Barnes on his thoughts of adding a zobel network, and we both came to the conclusion that it wasn't needed.
Yes, a single Tang-Band 3" has it's disadvantages, obviously power handling, and efficiency, however, driven properly and within its capability, the image, soundstage, and response are second to none, at any price range. Is there better sure, I am generalizing a bit.
Granted, your ears and mine aren't the same, as surely our source and back end components aren't either, BUT, imo, there is nothing to be tamed on the 3.0 (drums).
I will however try your Zobel network, and listen objectively.
Cheers,
Russ