Mike, I've chewed on this in the past and got distracted on something else. I think I'd figured it was "about halfway in between", but hadn't considered it's not linear - as you point out. As I think about it more, I guess it's going to end up where it ends up, and the room is going to have a big say in that matter... such that the answer is almost moot, and means I need to measure / tune for wherever it ends up, in my room. Notwithstanding all of that, the actual answer would be good to know as well. The answer to this is going to be of great interest to me as well, as I have (yet) another project starting up... that you will probably have some interest in / be able to compare notes on.
This is pretty cool and may be of interest (just because)... these are input boards for my Ayre VX-5 Twenty amp. They are spec'd for 100hz high pass, are "a thing" for Vandersteen owners as a lot of them use Ayre gear / Vandersteen likes the gear. The input impedance for the VX-5 Twenty is 1M Ohms, per leg... so the caps can be super small. The calculations for the value are right on with what's been discussed / shared for "high pass filter calculator" values, e.g., capacitor value needed for a certain frequency given the input impedance of the amp. So, doing it this way is another option for some.

