"The only problem I have with these is that most common off the shelf brands including: Durethane, Varethane, etc... have considerable amber coloring. "
Yep, they do. I like this, but certanly understand those who don't. The amber tint does look quite wrong on Maple.
What you seek is a "water white" finish. I suggest a visit to a dedicated paint store for this. The folks at Home Depot will only get confused if you tell them you want a "water white" finish. The folks a good paint stores will know exatly what you seek and most likely have some.
I'm not sure if this color is inherant to these top coats or if I can find a 'premium' poly-urethane that will yeild a more transparent finish.
Well, I don't think these are "premium finishes", but you will probably pay about $25/gallon for the stuff. This remains much cheaper than the very good conversion varnishes.
I think the solvent poly urethanes are much easier to apply and, without too much trouble, flow to a flat (smooth) finish.
I can't get nuthin' to apply flat with a brush

I tried and tried, but with no success

I purchased several really fancy paint brushes too. Argh.