I'll have to admit one thing and I'm sure this is true for others. There is a psychological effect of having to turn up the volume level higher to get to your preferred listening level and that is that you feel as though your amp is not strong enough.
In other words, if you have to turn the pot up to 12 o'clock or higher to get to the volume you want, you feel as though that's turning your amp up all the way to get to where you want it to be and there is not much more - this is only psychological - in fact, the amp might not even be working that hard at 12 o'clock on the 23db setting - only a few watts.
There is something pschologically pleasing about only having to turn it to 9 / 10 o'clock to feel as though your ears are going to blow - the feeling is that you've got way more room on the volume to crank it if you want to - in fact, this may not be the case as the red lights may only be a couple notches to go.
I've been disciplining myself to get used to having comfort in turning it up higher on the pot to get to the desired volume - this allows me to use more of the sweep and get more variation in volume level - it's as though I've now got a 100 volume position settings rather than 10 to utilize. All that and I'm also more content that from a technical perspective, I'm maximizing the signal-to-nose ratio on the amp.
I would say that if you haven't tried the 23db setting for at least a month or more - to truly get used to it - you really haven't given it a fair chance. There is only more to "gain" by going with it...no pun intended...