Just saw this thread and read it. I will have to jump in here as there has been mentioned several times about "phase" coming from the breaker box.
It is true, that homes have 2 120 volt lines and a neutral coming in from a branch transformer from the wonderful utilities, however, the use of the term phase may be misleading. Both 120 volt lines are IN PHASE with each other. That is how we get 240 volt, by putting these 2 branch circuits in series.
Since the power comes from a single transformer, the 2 lines are "connected" as well as the neutral, relative to each other, so trying to isolate the noise from one set of 120 to the other is pretty much futile. A voltage surge, such as one the may come from a capacitor started furnace motor, may end up in both branch circuits.
The best was to determine if there is an offending appliance, is to shut off every breaker in the house, except for the main, and the circuit your system is on. If the hum is there right away, it's in your system. If it's not, began to turn each breaker back on, one at a time and check to hum with each new additional breaker activation.
Wayner