I think you may actually want to keep the two functions separate because steep filter slopes require more calculation than gentle ones. Ideally you'd want an active crossover with really steep filters. Which implies lots of dedicated DSP horsepower.
I am not sure how steep I want the filter slopes. I know in the analog world, a steeper slope means a bigger phase angle change, until you get to 360, and you are back where you started. I am not sure if this is the same in digital filters or not.
But, I am thinking of a different plan now. I may get a behringer digital xover to tune my system, and once I figure out how steep a slope I want, and any other correction factors, I can build an analog filter with op amps, and take the berhinger out.
Of course, this is a long range plan, and this part is probably a year away.
Randy