Yes, it's all about freedom... As much as I'd like to keep a big room, what good is it when you have so many restrictive parameters you have to deal with... I can't pull my speakers into the room more than 1 foot, can't have pillows on the walls, can't have wire showing, can't, can't, can't...
And, since this is a main entertaining room, I agree with a lot of the can't's.
I've decided to move my hobby to the wee-room. Initially, I'll have the towering Revel's but, after their sale, I'll be heavily investigating things like the Diluceo's, Piega's, or whatever I can find in the 2,k range with a sub. This process has to be nearly a net zero affair. Money is tight so, the challenge begins.
Thanks to all for the input.
-Carl