Jeff,
You raised a few different issues, so I thought I would reply as follows:
1. Non-symmetric room layout. Yes, I have read a whitepaper on the Net which said this was a good thing. Mind you, I think the guy was single (ie. WAF wasn't a problem!!).
Basically, put your speakers either side of one corner (at the long end) and see how this sounds.
2. There cannot be "3 sets of golden ratios" .... there is only one golden ratio! This is:
H x 'X' = W and
W x 'X' = L.
Where 'X' I think = 1.618 but I am afraid I don't have the figure to hand and I'm too lazy to go find it. You can do this

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3. As far as I know, this 'golden ratio' has nothing to do with "proper placement of listener and speakers into the room with 8 foot high ceilings".
All it does is calculate the ideal dimensions of a room when you specify one unalterable dimension - like ceiling height.
Placement of speakers and listening chair within the room are a different matter - go see the "rule of thirds" or "the rule of fifths" for this. Cardas has a whitepaper on this.
And as I said, you can get room dimensions that are just as good as the 'golden ratio', sound-wise, if you play with the THX spreadsheet.
4. Yes, do try to "maximize the number of reflections (5 or more) before they come back to the listener, thereby delaying them long enough so that the ear does not confuse them with the orginal/direct sound ... to improve imaging".
But, don't forget that with a flat ceiling you have only 1 reflection from speaker to ceiling to your ears!
Regards,
Andy