FWIW,
I do not think your needs will be met using a passive pre-amp. I would suggest that you first think about getting one of Klaus' active pre-amps. You can then run a SB, either stock or analog modded, the Oppo and your cable box.
You have to decide now what is more important to you. Ultimate sound quality, or ease of use.
I have yet to hear
ANY outboard DAC that sounds even close to an analog modded SB. I would suggest, if possible, to use the analog modded SB into a stock Burson Buffer and then into a switch box or pre-amp to use your other sources. This particular route will cost more money than you say you want to spend right now, but it does give you an upgrade path to follow, one component at a time, as you can afford it.
Bill of Morningside Audio sent around a few of the BBA for folks to listen to. I had one. So did Zybar. We both FAR preferred the stock Burson Buffer over the BBA. The BBA is over twice the price of the stock Burson Buffer and it does not come close to the dynamics or clarity of the Burson.
Do not think of an outboard DAC as a cure for everything. DACs all have their own problems. Along with a DAC you will have to get digital cables to connect your components. Each digital cable will change the signal slightly. This can be another sinkhole for lots of money.
Depending on what DAC you might be interested in, you might find that the power supply could be better/improved. You might chose one that has a tube output buffer section. Then you can throw a lot of money at different tubes to "flavor" the sound

My suggestions, again, are to contact Klaus to see if you could change your pre-amp to an active one. Buy the SB and listen to it for awhile. Upgrade/change the power supply on the SB to a linear power supply. After a month or so, if you budget has recovered from the purchase of the system, go for the Full SB mods. That way, IF, some ultimate DAC comes along, you can use that with the SB. Listen to the modded SB in your system for another month. You can then decide if the volume is loud enough for you or if you need some more gain. THEN you can decide which direction you may want to go. Maybe you can audition a couple of DACs IN YOUR SYSTEM. Don't make your decision based on what someone else likes in their system.
I do have a stock Burson Buffer that I have sent around for auditions. When you get to that point in your quest, contact me and I might be able to send it to you.
Maybe you will have a big windfall of cash by then and you could go for the BOLDER/Bent/Buffer combo. BTW, I can change the gain in the Burson Buffer, so if there is not enough there for you on some recordings, it can be made louder.
Don't try to go for everything at once. SLOW_DOWN

a little and wait for your system to arrive and listen to it for a bit. You can then SLOWLY make your decisions based on YOUR system and YOUR needs in YOUR room.
Oh yeah, the biggest upgrade you can make to a music system is room treatments. Before you think about spending money for mods or upgraded cables, invest some bucks in treating you listening area. It will improve everything and all upgrades from then on will sound even better.