I have blown ribbons on weak tube amps which clip due to low impedence of speakers, I never knew it because the clipping was gentle, but enough to bend the ribbons elements. I have also had them blown by an oscillating amp, that was not gentle and I hope I never see that again.

A good designer does not make oscillating amps, so I would doubt that is the problem. Remember Frank invented the infinite slew rate, so I think he can make a circuit stable to RF. If the sub is more than 2 feet away from the amp I would rule it out altogether.
The speaker is a normal load 90dB, 4ohm nominal, dipping only to 3.3 ohms. The 550 should not have any problem drive those speakers even at very high volumes. But you never know what's really going on unless you look at the output. It is just a machine, things can break.
Franks offer to check it out for free says a lot, doesn't it?? That combined with Brian's preamp review has got me looking for my wallet. Dang, still empty!

Good luck Ric!