I'm gonna take a lot of crap for the following statements, but I am going to make them anyway.
Audiophiles have themselves to blame in many ways. Audiophiles have demanded fancy packaging first and performance a distant second. The war stories that I trade with other manufacturers are echoing that last statement.
Audiophiles gave up on objective measurements in favor of the golden ears. The golden ears you gave your trust to for the most part have no formal traing in engineering, physics, or music. I ...
This isn't much of a revelation to me. It echoes earlier posts intimating that people like crap. A good analogy and proof of this is ebay. How many times have you sold something really nice and got absolute minimum for it.... and then crap goes for big $$$????
As to the lack of measurement, I'm all ears! I wish there were a set of standards for measuring differences. If there are, I don't know how to do it but, that's one of the reasons I'm here on AC, to learn. I have great respect for what Dan is doing. I'd love it if he'd post a 'how-to' on measuring cable and equipment properties to properly match them for optimum results... for free, of course

I think Dan has the same attitude I do that there is no mystery to building a system, anything that can be heard can be measured. It's not magic. I also think Dan is actually more bitter than I am about this issue. So, I leave it to him to suggest a change. Tell me how and I'll try it. If I can repeat your results, we have a winner! The Beldenators were certainly a success but, I don't know why. What did you measure to know that these cables would work well? I'd like to know....
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My biggest issue with current hifi is that I feel I'm the demographic hifi needs... (DINK, already enthusiastic about audio) why won't it market to me? The only thing that has come close is my speakers. The Revel F30's are targeted to me. (Someone who wants to take a big leap into serious hi-fi but, doesn't have 10,k to spend on speakers) Also, Odyssey amplifiers seems to be doing a good job finding me. That was the amp I would have bought if I hadn't found AC... and AKSA... and AVA... Now I am happy supporting the companies here. This takes me back to my point in my first reply to this thread... AC is a step in the right direction for hifi to survive. AC combines feedback, manufacturers, DIY, and advice all in one place. The companies that are here have some pressure to produce good products.... otherwise, they'd be immediately laughed away.
Also, as to the comments about dealers being insulting... how do you think they feel? How many people come into their shop and have no idea what they're talking about yet spew all this crap about what they think they know? Consider how you come across when you're talking to the salesman. It's a 2-way street. Selling hifi sucks much worse than buying it. Try to find a dealer you can work with, there's tons of them out there.