Mike,
This reference is for a line level 12db (2nd order) highpass -
http://www.t-linespeakers.org/tech/filters/passiveHLxo.htmlplease note that it is for a single ended signal.
For conversion of filters into balanced versions -
http://www.filter-solutions.com/passive.html#balanceand please note that these conversions are for constant total load impedance. This is why I specifically asked you the input impedance per leg, whether that nominal 100k input impedance represents 50kohms/phase or 100kohms/phase. Is the single ended input impedance 50 or 100k ohms. If you really want to make a balanced highpass, you must resolve these questions by getting specific answers from Rouge Audio. If you resolve those questions, Bob's yer uncle.
It might be that the scarcity of 18db (3rd order) passive, line level highpass filters, is that they will show a rather large attenuation, making it difficult to match the level adjustment range of a powered subwoofer with its own built in lowpass. Then again, maybe not. Nevertheless, the only 3rd order passive line level highpass I recall was the HDLLP published in a 'who knows when' issue of Speaker Builder that mated to a similarly attenuating lowpass.
FWIW
EDIT - I've not checked the 'Q' (shape) of the falloff from the filters in the first URL. It should be between 1 and .5 with .707 being 'ideal' for mystical reasons. Iff'n you're interested, do a google on 'q' and '2nd order filter', and the solution is left as an exercise....
