Hi Felipe,
Thanks for posting, good question.
There is a very good technical reason NOT to use a soft start. This will delay settling of the amp and create a largish DC offset, around 12V, for more than one second. It's very briefly there at switch on, around 200mS, does not damage anything, but with a softstart it will be a significant issue, endangering your speakers.
I would go with Plan B, but delete the soft start pcb. If there are problems with the house wiring, you should address them first. Another option might be to use EI transformers, which do not have such a surge current (10X!!) as toroids.
Hope this is helpful and points the way!
Cheers,
Hugh