In the instruction manual they say how to make ballanced to rca connectors. A couple bucks from radioshack and a little solder, pretty easy.
I use the DEQ2496 in my main system between a transport and a DAC, digital in and out. I might get the DSP1124P for my bedroom system RCA in/out just on the sub. This one doesn't have dig in/out so it goes analog in--AD--EQ--DA--analog out. OK for sub but not the best for your mains.
Theres more, but these are the ones I've been interested in. Maybe the DEC2496 for active biamping if the analog only outs can be modded to digital.
Good luck
Ryan