I am a multi unit dweller in an 'Over55" building full of old ladies who just itch for a reason to whine about something.. I do not give them any reason to add to the litany of complaints.
Been here 14 years and not one complaint about noise. Or even being able to hear the music through the walls.
The first thing is learning to play at a lower volume. IT takes time to adjust but it works. Naturally if you say play music average 85Db and then turn it down to say average 55dB is just SUCKS 100%. lifeless etc.. But if you ply music all the time at 55dB and crank it up to say 70,, LOUD.. wow that is loud...
Just food for thought.
FIrst off if you enjoy your life and place now..NO low bass. You have to be silly to think you can have a lot of bass, loud low bass, and not get evicted/ police visits in a shared wall situation. IF you disagree, good luck not getting shot.

IF the op here is planning on buying speakers with a lot of bass? big mistake. just asking for endless shit to be created.. no foolin'
Anyway, my solution was Magnepan. The bass from Maggies just impacts the walls less. less bleed through. When I went from the previous 3.6 to the 20.7 Maggies I was very worried about too much bass. but with some adjustments I can say not a problem. though it COULD BE if I just did a few different things to the system.
I am not rewriting the endless drivel I wrote about my speakers etc.
Just want to say yeah you can alleviate SOME bass.. but a lot there is just a limit to what can be done other than to NOT BUY SUCH SPEAKERS.
I am of the opinion that others have the 100% right to quiet enjoyment of their space. I expct the same. no gee it is midday so I can annoy the hell out of anyone I want stuff. (Lucky the building I live in the mgnt agrees and folks have been handed "3 day to quit" evictions just days after moving in... over refusing to stop annoying others)