When I was in high school, I worked at a Home Depot (in Dutchess County, NY).  Ric came in and purchased some items, and I was
cashier.  People at the store told me that he lived nearby and he stopped in every once in a while.  When he handed me his credit card, sure enough it said "Richard Ocasek."   He seemed very cool - just doing his thing.  I didn't ask him about The Cars or anything.  I'm sure that would have been annoying for him.  
RIP, Ric.
Vinnie