well I sent an email to Powervar tech support and the responded with this:
"I believe in this case the dedicated circuit is to blame. Because this transformer has extremely low impedance (approx. 2%)
and it is probably the only thing on this ckt., the inrush current which can be (700-800% of full load current) is taking out your 20 amp breaker. On the other ckts. there are branches which help disperse that inrush current and dampen the effects. If you feel you need this dedicated line, I would recommend looking into a breaker with different current characteristics, such as one with a different time-delay curve. As for the hum, I suspect that is due to a resonance situation on that line, which can be caused by many factors, length of wire, ckt impedance etc.
I hope this helps."
then I said:
"thanks - that makes sense. I guess its not dangerous then - once it finally turns on it works good."
and then he said:
"Yeah, once you get the breaker to hold, I would leave the conditioner on and do any necessary shut downs with the power switches on the load equipment not the conditioner."
So I guess I'll just leave it on

THANKS for all the suggestions you guy provided

Tony