Thanks for all your responses so far.
Jay S,
I am currently putting together a brand new system. I want a quality 2-channel system, however I desire to connect it to my television cable box in order to get the Metal channel. Thus, it will also be the audio system for my television. I largely want the remote control because of the television hookup. If I had a room just for audio I probably wouldn't care. Metal is pretty much all I listen to and I would like to be able to play it loudly(100-105db). Not all the time, but sometimes you just have to turn it up.
I have mainly been looking at Tube amplification, Decware in particular. I was kind of hoping to avoid a preamp altogether. However, I am running into a couple issues with this approach. It is difficult to find an affordable Tube amp with remote. It is difficult to find a high efficiency speaker that is shielded for use next to a TV.
So I began to think that I would get a preamp with Remote and get that decision out of the way.
Most solid state equipment that I have heard has a certain grain to it, which is leading me towards tubes. I also have not heard a solid state setup with really good dynamics, which is leading me towards high efficiency speakers.
Metal has a lot of double bass kick drum that I would like to come through strong and dynamic. I would like a warm midrange for the power ballads. I don't like bright highs.
I obviously have not heard a lot of equipment though. My total budget for preamp, amp, speakers is about $4k.