Ah yes, the good old "lapels"
What I find amusing about my tweak is that I decided to use it on the RM40 (and it can be used on the others) which already has a "limited dispersion" pattern.
Some might look at the implementation as meaning their is "too much" dispersion, but that is not the case. The goal was to "even further" reduce side reflections and baffle reflection/gain from an already great driver in this respect.
There are "many" ways to reduce, absorb or block reflections. Jon's suggestion about putting the quilt over your screen will certainly "open your eyes" when listening to 2 channel.
Placing or attaching sheet(s) of acoustic foam (min 3" thick preferably more) that stick out enough to block side dispersion to the screen or to the side wall, will also have a similar effect if using the RPTV for movies.
In fact this method is better than trying to place the foam at the point of first reflection on the side walls, since it blocks/absorbs before it even gets to the wall.
As far as the "toe in" and what is proper, and why.
Toe in (convergence) is to "focus" the two signals in a way that provides the greatest enhancement to the type of sound you like.
It accomplishes several things:
1) it places the converging signals to combine equal amounts of each to create a complete psychoacoustic soundstage and images
2) it reduces side wall reflections
3) it places the listener into the dispersive axis of the mid and hf drivers
4) it can also affect the width of the sweet spot
I personally like to be pretty much "exactly" on axis. That will give you the most precise image, and HF information (which at my age you need). It also will make for the "smallest but most detailed" sweet spot.
If you have a room with no side walls (at least 6-8 feet away) you can try converging the speakers 1-2 feet behind you. If you have definate side walls, (normal room) then 1-2 feet in front of you will work best.
The 1-2 feet in front or behind convergence will "increase" the sweet spot, but reduce the palpable image outlines and depth slightly and is certainly suggested for HT use.
On axis might require reduction in the pots a couple ticks, where off axis might require boosting them slightly to taste.
Hope that helps.