Hi Lonewolf.
...people tend to hear different things and whose to say whats right or wrong....it's what sound you prefer....what you want to hear.
You know, I kind of struggled with saying succinctly and more precisely what I was tying to communicate. I get all these thoughts in my mind and then forget how I want to say them sometimes. Ask Deano or Steve. Kind of my concrete/random nature I guess. But you provide a great springboard for some of what I wanted to say but didn’t communicate clearly.
How have you educated yourself? I love to learn especially within the frame of what I value…like my friends, family, my relationship with God and the big J., my music, my business. Those come to mind.
I gave two scenarios of conversations that aren’t too atypical of what can happen in our home. The first sounds like my marriage up to about 10 years ago. The second sounds more like what I’ve learned and applied to the present. The former was leading to ruin. The latter is a lot richer.
I remember the first set of loudspeakers I “designed” and built…so does Steve. That was twenty years ago and O - my - God! They really were beautiful and they had bass that could be used by wrecking crews for demolition and highs that killed bats and called whales to our house! Remember the huge beached whale thing about 20 years ago? I did that.
Bass and details was all I knew (a little) about. Then I met Steve and he brought over these uglier than Sh%t! little two ways he had designed. I thought “you gotta be freakin’ kidding me!” Then I listened to them out of politeness. My jaw hit the floor! I mean Hit-The-Floor! I’ll never forget it. That was the beginning of my education and since, I’ve made it a point to continue to educate myself. I’ve made substantial effort to become more sensitive to what’s going on sonically while listening to music (when I wear my critique hat which, thank God, isn’t always) and because of that, I’ve broadened what’s important to me. It's not uncommon for me to be awakened in the middle of the night screaming and scaring the bjesus out of my wife screaming " 'd you hear that!? A mosquito just hit a tree in the woods across the street!" It's important!

Then I go back to sleep. Hi-Fi spectaculars do little to impress me but the illusion of “Real” rivets me and can bring me to tears. What tickled my ears then is way different than what engages me now.
(As a side note and speaking of rivets and tears, there’s one song particularly that can do that for me on a well assembled system. It’s listed in my "RECOMMENDED" thread on our Circle here. The CD is titled “Savannah” and the song track is #3, “First Day of Summer”. I can’t explain it but the best I know how to say what this instrumental song communicates to me is a “Calling”. A calling to the adventure where something inside of me says “Yes! you are the strong hero that slays the dragon and saves the damsel. No need to let fear stop you from the danger. Take the risk! You were made to live in a dangerous world gone wrong!” And upon my arrival through the forest, there’s one greater than me that says “Well done Son!” A little dramatic, I know but what man doesn’t deeply desire this when he looks honestly at the desire of his soul? Anyway, that’s just what that song says to me I think.
To further make my point about this newsletter’s topic if you’re following me, I wouldn’t want Marble’s rig as my main system (and not because I’m better or any stupid thing like that) but I got to hear this song on Marbles rig and…well if he would have known, I might have been a little embarrassed. Kudos Rob! Deano’s rig is another system that can do that to me.)
Another benefit I’ve discovered as a result of broadening what’s important to me is I don’t find the need to chase any audio rabbits anymore. Those damned things are harder than hell to catch and they’ll break you for sure! Instead, “It’s about the music” has truly become a reality for me instead of an intriguing cliché. Amazing how the same dynamic shows up in different places. Same thing happened in my marriage. To my shame, up until I started educating myself and broadening what was important to me about my wife and my marriage, I spent a good part of the first twelve years of my marriage secretly chasing other women. For the last ten years, I no longer have to pretend the value of who my wife is and what she means to me. Just as my music stirs me, she’s a freakin’ awesome and incredible woman
who drives me up the wall sometimes…as I do her too. She rivets me.
Rob…
...I think you have achieved your goals regarding your speaker cables.
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You couldn’t be more wrong!…wait, what the hell am I doing!?
Hi George.
It's too bad you live so far away, I know an afternoon listening to music and just talking (probably about everything, not just audio) would be very enjoyable.
I think you’re right my friend. Sometimes I wished I lived more in the thick of it all. Easier to be with more like minded friends and all. Corn, vegetable and dairy folk here have convinced me of the need to purchase the fruit of their toils but so far, I can’t get a farmer to place much priority in a good music system or spend $500.00 on a pair of “patch cords”!
I would love to come out to the country at some point. Thank you for the invite! I can’t plan when right now so If it’s okay with you, I would like to simply invite myself when the time is good. I won’t forget, I promise.
Wow! Jerry. Thank you for such kind words. You know, I know Ridge Street has to sustain itself financially and I need to provide a living for my family but the thing that drives me to keep doing what we do here (which, as I’ve said before in so many words, isn’t pushing wire through a tube or tricking CAT-5 out) is getting feedback that validates our desire to make a positive difference for folks who love to enjoy music.
You…Selfish!? Na! c’mon Jerry. I just think you’ve been on a good learning curve for a long time. It’s helped a lot of people but there comes a point where, if you don’t get off your curve going down a straight road, you crash and burn. Been there, done that myself. You deserve to take your time and enjoy your present destination.
Robin!
…how about visiting your Ridge Street website and bringing it up to the 21 century?
Have I mentioned this before?
LOL! Best chuckle I’ve had today! Thanks! You da man Bro! No escaping your candor. I know, I know!