ok, with the RCA facing you, gotcha. I was thinking standing at the front of the table with the long bar facing on your right side. Ok, enough said.
By the way, no apologies necessary. I'll be 68 in a few days, and I refuse to be sorry for myself, or have a bad attitude. Being blind is just for me part of life. It's a sighted world out there. You go with the flow, or you don't. You either move along with life, or it passes you by.