I remember bringing my M1 Turbo S over to a friend's house one time for a get-together. It was a larger space, and the speakers were farther off the side walls than in my home setup, so I thought the soundstage size would be even greater with more room to breathe. But we just couldn't get them to open up in his space. I was very un-moved by the sound. Then when I hooked them back up at home, the soundstage opened right back up. I have no idea what wasn't working about that room, but maybe if he kept them for a couple weeks we could have found a spot where they opened up.
So, I guess I'm with the other poster - keep trying to exhaust all your setup options.
In my home setup, I had them spaced very wide, and only about a foot from the side walls, even though they were about five feet from the rear wall. The room was a bit narrow, only about 11.5 ft wide, but about 25ft deep and with a big bookshelf across the whole rear wall that helped with diffusion. So, the speakers were in the ballpark of 6-7ft between them, and listening position was a little more than that from each of them, maybe 8-9ft.
At my buddy's place, the speakers were probably 8ft off the rear wall, and maybe 2-3ft off the side walls, but listening position was probably 10ft away, so further away. And rear wall at his place was maybe only 3-4 ft from listening position vs the 12-15ft at my house.
So, near-ish field listening, or roughly equilateral, sounds appropriate. But how much space behind the listening position? And what's the spacing to your side walls? And are your floors carpet or reflective surface?