Rebbi,
Who chastised you and where? You asked for some advice pertaining to the height of your speakers and I said, "Experiment and use your own judgment." How does that become a form of censure in your mind?
Then if there was any doubt as to how to go about experimenting, Sunnydaze told you everything you need to know, "It's pretty clear what to experiment with: try different heights, choose the one that sounds best to you."
Your response to our advice was, "Okay, okay: pretend I never asked."