Well..another listening session at Best Buy. I found a larger store that had a few setups I hadn't heard and I re-listened to the ones I had heard before.
The short version..listening to music rather than just a movie soundtrack..the sound bars I listened to..up to $800 (Sony HTNT5, Sony 790, Klipsch..something for 6-700$, JBL, Polk, Yamaha, ZVOX sb500..and the one I was really starting to focus on..ZVOX 670)..listening to music..in the setting I heard them in..they all sound..poor. Granted, the setting can have a huge impact on what the units sound like..but I'm not going to spend 5-700$ hoping it sounds ok in a home. A number of these might do quite well for HT..but for music..meh..at best.
I've pretty much decided I'm expecting to much from this segment(sound bars, sound bases) of the HT market.
So..now I look at the Energy 5.1 system, Pioneer BS22, or the Elac B5 LR bookshelf/center/sub setups and a AVR of some sort. I haven't found anywhere to listen to these options, but the reviews are glowing, as they were with the many sound bars..what to do...? At least there seems to be some forum-based discussions of these systems..better than professional reviews.
If anyone has some thoughts..love to hear them..thx..