I enjoy seeing everyone's pics and projects.
I'm hesitant to weigh in on this topic, because I don't desire to step on toes, and others may have opposite views which can certainly be valid for them.
From my experience, my opinion on external crossovers is quite simple: Don't do it unless you absolutely have to.
If adjustments can be made, to put crossover in the cabinet, then make those adjustments. If there is no other option and an external must be used, then my next attempt would be to rigid-mount the external crossovers to the rear of the cabinet if possible. Secured to cabinet allows hardwiring without additional connectors and avoids additional footprint.
Electrostatic floorstanders or full open baffle drivers are good examples of often requiring external crossovers. Even in those scenarios, the best application is generally to have the crossovers secured to the cabinet and hardwired.
Those really are the main negatives for me, extra cables, extra connectors, but mostly extra location to plan for. For me, it isn't primarily a cost deterrent, it's simply a huge inconvenience over time of having this extra box that always has to be placed somewhere.
Tyson's photos of his blue amp/crossover boxes are a good example of a scenario where it does work well without taking up an additional location.
I've had lots of people request assistance with an external crossover build, and for those without any true necessity, after some back and forth discussion of the negative trade-offs, they always change their mind back to internal.