Congrats Nils on a great sub!
When I got my first Force, I bugged Mike repeatedly for the perfect setup. He sure is a patient guy! In the end, I found that he was right when he said there is no "perfect" universal setup. Every room, setup, and person is different. The best advice he gave me was to play with one variable at a time to see what effect it had sonically. So, I'd just play with the phase for a day or two, them maybe one of the crossover filters. Once I could identify what each control did, it made it much easier to dial it in. I think you could probably start with both filters on the Titan at around 50-55Hz. Get the phase and volume right, then tweek on the crossover settings. Let us know how it works out!