Couple of things - first, as I'm sure you're aware your Otica's are extremely close to your back wall. I don't know if you have the space to pull them out, but I would try that. Also, yes, your sweeps definitely indicate that you have some pretty large room modes - especially on the sub sweeps. Do you have the ability to move the subs around at all? I'd move them around and check with more sweeps - also if you are able to change your listening position that could help as well.
I really don't know what else to tell you. The only way I've been able to tame bass like that is with a HUGE amount of bass trapping. If that's not possible for WAF reasons you're going to have a fight on your hands for sure. You could definitely try additional subs, but you're still likely going to need to play with positioning quite a bit. DSP might be your only real option.