We have to remember that people are complicated. Our lives change constantly and what control we think we have can disappear in moments. We need to not always react as an attack back on a fellow, but react as kindly as you can (or maybe not at all). You’d be surprised how some people react to kindness. Not everything is personal on the internet. Sometimes we have to think of the bigger problem that may not be the discussion, but something else entirely.
I used to spend more time here, but now work has sucked up all my time. But I pop in from time to time to check in. There are valuable people with much information that I would be without if they all left. There is always something to learn from everyone, even if it is how not to act. The internet can be a cold place, is that what we want? We need to respect one another.