It would be great if you could list the tracks you used for your listening tests.
I have noticed that the greatest and most obvious differences in speaker cables I detect, are in things like: soundstage width, depth and height. And within that sounstage, do the individual musicians occupy their own location, with noticeable space between each other. And the natural ambience of the acoustic space (can I 'hear the walls'?).
Better cables reproduce that sort of stuff better than inferior cables.
When I Iisten for differences in cables, I do not listen to things like bass, or midrange, or highs. I listen for things like: how far beyond the outer edges of my speakers do the violins come from, does the percussionist seem to be coming from the back of orchestra, etc? Where in the soundstage do the sax, bass, drums, piano seem to be? And does it seem like there are actual people playing them?
These sorts of things are a product of very small (microseconds) timing cues being kept intact. And the better the cable, the better they are kept intact.
One caveat I will mention, is, that these differences are much easier to hear with music that is recorded where all the musicians are playing at tha same time, in the same acoustic space, and minimal studio manipulation is done after the fact. And the recording engineer took efforts to capture the natural ambience of that space, using something like a Decca tree, or Blumlein configuration.
The vast majority of studio recordings will not reveal this sort of imaging and soundstage, since so much processing and effects are used.
I would say, listen again using recordings with natural ambience (classical, chamber music, acoustic jazz), if these aren't already part of the cuts you use to demo equipment, but ignore how the highs or bass sounds, and lisren for how big the soundstage seems, can I 'see' musicians within that soundstage, how far back does the percussionist seem to be,etc.
If you still are unable to tell much of a difference, it may be that neither cable is good at this specific aspect.