Well, there's very few of us around here that run 7.1 setups, so you probably won't be getting much feedback on this...
In my experience, going to 7.1 was not all that worthwhile. It cost me a good deal to setp up to 7.1. It was $1,700 for a new receiver, $375 for a amp for the rear center channels (receiver only has 5 channels of power), $300 for rear center speakers, $150 or so for cabling, and then tax on top of all of that.
While I am glad that I got the new (and much nicer) receiver, I can't say that the $ spent on the amp, speakers, & cable was entirely worth it.
The problem is this. Very, very few movies are mixed to decode in EX/ES. And of those that do, very few of them actually do it right (or do anything at all with the rear center channel).
But a movie doesn't have to be mixed for EX or ES to be decoding in either format. Any 5.1 channel signal can be decoded in 7.1.
As I paid for the gear, I run everything in 7.1 if possible. I used to only run EX & ES encoded software in 7.1 mode. But as I've not found any downside to decoding things in 7.1 I have been doing it all of the time for the last 2 years.
Most of the time nothing really goes on back there. But occasionally you get surprised. Dog Soldiers is a perfect example. It's only mixed in 5.1, but decodes in 7.1 better than the majority of EX/ES encoded titles.
Another good example is Xbox games that have in game 5.1. They almost always decode very well in 7.1. In fact, they're the only thing that seems to be worth running in 7.1.
Is the added expense worth it to you? That, I don't know.
But I will say that you don't need much power back there, as nothing ever really goes on back there.
And I'll also say that 6.1 is not worth bothering with at all. A single rear center channel directly behind your head is very, very hard to hear. If you want to go for more than 5.1, skip 6 channel and head straight to 7 channel.