Only ribbons I've ever heard are the Arum Cantus in my Vaughn Triodes. Not hot at all. Smooth as silk.
The Aurum Cantus, Fountek, LCY and RAAL ribbons are anything but hot when sensitivity is properly matched to the other drivers. In fact, the most common complaint is that they are too "polite" or "laid back" when compared to users' previous experience with dome tweeters.
After acclimating to the "new" sound, the realization sets in that they more likely accurately portray high frequencies when compared to domes or dome implementations that "sizzle".
Steve