Komoyuki, I am writing this to you, and to myself as well. I do this to remind me of an obvious but seldom appreciated principles.
1) Audio enthusiasm, for me anyway, is a hobby. It is to be enjoyed. It is supposed to bring me pleasurable listening experience. Whatever pleases ME is the goal. If it brings me pleasure, then it is just what I want. If that means that I am looking for the next better thing, than I am reducing my pleasure. If I am looking for a "name" on my gear then that is not audio enthusiasm, that is collecting.
2) There is nothing wrong in collecting, its just not what I am focusing on. If collecting is your focus, than know that you are going to be spending $$$ on something that you want because you want the name, thus you are only going to be gaining temporary pleasure from it.
3) Where I am listening is more important than what I am listening to in terms of experience. Gear may sound terrific in one setting and like dirt in another. Unless I want to change my listening environment, I need to tailor my gear for my room. Some can change their room to fit the gear, but for reasons too numerous to mention, that is not a practical proposition for me. Getting the best out of my experience, I need to experiment with my gear to find its best performance. This means that "set it and forget it," may not result in uniform experience in listening. Different music may need speaker movement, tone adjustments and volume settings which only I may appreciate.
4) Like the game of golf, perfection is unattainable. With that acceptance, I feel I can make changes to maximize my experience, but know that: a) a change is not always an improvement, b) over time things will sound different, c) a less than satisfying result from a change is not a "Bad Result" if I do not lose too much $$ and learn from it.
5) I acknowledge in myself that the chase for perfection, even though unattainable, is not a negative since I do get pleasure from the chase. Aware of this, I need to set my limits in perspective. Although I am looking for a personal experience, my actions effect other around me, so I do need to remember to be aware of consequences.
I know that this list is not unique or even all that special, but I do tend to forget them in the heat of my chase. When I feel the itch for a new "thing" I have to step back sometimes and assess why I want the change. I feel that helps me make a better choice. I hope this helps you as well.
Scott