What a journey it's been. Along the way I was frustrated and was thinking I never should have started tweaking but in the end it has been worth it.
Measuring the room showed blown tweeters which I never would have found otherwise and the Strata mini speakers have crossover, phase and level settings that all interact with each other. After learning to solder and replacing with GR tweeters, I can now 'see' via REW and Dayton UMM-6USB mike how the mini settings interact with each other. Placement more out in the room has smoothed peaks and valleys and remaining anomalies are further improved by tweaking phase, crossover and level settings.
I now have an ohmeter, measuring mike, and soldering iron and was originally going to sell all of the stuff when done, but I think I'm gonna hang on to the equipment.