Well the real answer is probably not what you want to hear, you need a thicker panel and a wider airspace. There will be some improvement of leaving a 2 inch gap, but I think that 2 inch thicker material would do better. in a typical bass trap, nothing is trapped, because it is a fact of physics that you can't destroy energy, it can only be transformed into a different form. Fiberglas or rock wool offer resistance to the air molecules somewhat like the difference of running through an open field to running through a field with 5 ft high grass. The high grass is like the bass trap, it slows down the air molecules thereby attenuating their energy by turning it into heat. Knowing that, and knowing that sound waves have compression and rarefaction, that is, they speed up and slow down. If you look at a sound wave on a scope, where the wave crosses the zero line represents the slowest speed while the highest + and lowest - represent the highest speed. "Basstraps" are most effective if placed at the highest speed points of the waveform. This is also known as the quarter wave. A 60 hz tone is about 18 ft long making the quarter wave about 4.5 feet. This how far from the wall you should place your basstrap for maximum attenuation at this frequency. A 2 inch gap would place the quarter wave about 2500 hz. Not really helping a whole lot in the bass range.
The answer about diffusers is that the material does need to be reflective of sound. The bass is affected by them in two ways, the lower frequency that the diffuser will scatter, and the compression effect of the channels. The guru I spoke with told me it works sort of like shock absorbers. The bass waves are large, and as they as he put it lay across the surface of a large diffuser, the energy is once again converted to heat, this is by compression, the same way a diesel motor works. I hope this helps, but on a closing note I must tell you that I have heard great improvement in bass (subwoofer) performance when LARGE diffusers are deployed in the room. At one RMAF show, I arrived with a six foot wide by six foot tall 10.5 inch deep diffuser we placed on the back wall opposite the speakers. The designer of the speakers was shocked, because he had to reduce the gain significantly on the sub channel to get the balance right again. His grin when this was done and he sat down to listen was a special moment!